You might think that you're shy around women, but that's simply not the case. So what reasons do you have to be shy around someone you're attracted to? Treat those women the same way you treat any woman.
A great way to build confidence talking to the opposite sex is to do just that, with women you aren't attracted to romantically. Build friendships, engage in conversation with them and get comfortable being around them.
What you need to do is to focus on yourself and what makes you happy apart from a relationship. You'll start building your confidence up in other non-romantic areas and that transfers over.
Being around people who are louder and more extroverted will subconsciously help you to relax.
When you follow what lights you up, and, you'll instantly be more attractive to other people around you. And you won't feel shy in any of those moments, because you're fully immersed in what you're doing.
Believe that you will find someone amazing. Believe that your dating life is about to get a lot better. When you think positively, you'll be more likely to draw positive experiences into your life.
Being shy is not something you need to distance yourself from, so long as it doesn't have a negative effect on your life and relationships. At the end of the day, humbleness is sexy as hell.